How It Works

Small daily action. Long-term emotional impact.
PerkyPlay helps you create one block of focused time each day to be fully present with your child.
It’s not about being perfect. It’s about showing up — again and again.
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The Loop — How It Actually Works

  • Tap “Start Session”
  • Your phone is locked. If you pick it up, the session resets
  • It’s structure — not shame — designed to protect 45 minutes of true connection
Step 1: Start Focus Mode
  • We suggest one simple, age-appropriate play activity
  • No prep. No planning. Just say yes and begin
Step 2: Pick a Prompt
  • 45 minutes. No apps. No multitasking
  • Talk, build, laugh, rest — what matters is that you're together
Step 3: Play
  • At the end, you and your child answer one short question
  • You earn PerkyPoints
  • More importantly, you start noticing how this time is changing both of you
Step 4: Reflect & Earn
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Why It Works

  • Tap “Start Session”
  • Your phone is locked. If you pick it up, the session resets
  • It’s structure — not shame — designed to protect 45 minutes of true connection
“We don’t give you advice.
We give you structure — and space to connect.”

Science Behind the Design

  • 66 days is the average time to form a long-term habit
    (UCL, European Journal of Social Psychology)
  • Consistent routines lead to up to 49% fewer behavioral disruptions
    (CDC & Journal of Child Psychology)
  • Positive parent-child relationships reduce risk of anxiety and depression by 70% (CDC & National Research Council)
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Designed to Become
a Habit — and Here’s Why

  • That’s why PerkyPlay is built around a 90-day experience
  • Not to pressure you — but to help presence become part of your everyday life
  • Just 45 minutes a day, for three months, can change the rhythm of your relationship
  • And once that rhythm exists, it keeps showing up on its own
“It takes 66 days, on average, to form a habit.”
University College London, 2009
(with ranges between 18 and 254 days)
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Presence is protective. PerkyPlay helps you protect it